Storming is not failure: the group item where the leader is supposed to be challenged
When a member attacks the leader in session three, new leaders hear it as a sign the group is falling apart. The NCE hears it as the group working, and it tests whether you do.
By Dr. Andrew Wichterman · September 22, 2026 · 6 min read · Updated October 22, 2026
When a member attacks the leader in session three, new leaders hear it as a sign the group is falling apart. The NCE hears it as the group working, and it tests whether you do.
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The item
In the third session of a counseling group, a member says, "I don't think you know what you're doing. This group is a waste of my time." Several members look uncomfortable; one nods. The leader's MOST appropriate response is to:
A. Remind the member of the group's rules about respect and move on
B. Acknowledge the frustration, invite the member and others to say more, and explore what the group needs
C. Meet with the member privately after the session to address the behavior
D. Ask the member to leave the group for the day
Keyed answer: B. Testing the leader is a normative feature of the transition (storming) stage. The leader who stays nondefensive, invites the challenge into the open, and treats it as information about the group's needs models conflict tolerance and builds the trust the working stage requires. Shutting it down or taking it private teaches the group that conflict is dangerous.
What the item is really testing
Whether you know the stages well enough to see a challenge as expected rather than as a crisis. Tuckman: forming, storming, norming, performing, adjourning. Corey: initial, transition, working, final. The transition stage is defined by anxiety, testing, resistance and struggles for control, and the leader's job there is to make conflict survivable.
Why each wrong answer tempts you
A. Invoking rules to end the conversation is defensive and teaches the group that challenge is not allowed.
C. Taking a public challenge private removes the group's chance to learn from it and signals the leader could not handle it in the room.
D. Punitive, and it confirms the member's complaint.
What the nod means
The item says one member nodded. That is the exam telling you the challenge is not one person's problem. Something in the group is unmet, and the leader who explores it with the whole group will find out what. Linking the challenger to the nodding member ("It sounds like you are not the only one wondering that") is the skill the item rewards.
Nondefensive is not passive
Exploring the challenge does not mean agreeing that the group is a waste of time. The leader can acknowledge the frustration, ask what would make the time worthwhile, and offer a process observation about where the group is. The stance is curious and steady. Options that are defensive (rules, dismissal) and options that are collapsing (apologizing, changing the whole plan) are both wrong.
The research behind the item
Lieberman, Yalom and Miles studied encounter group leaders and found the most harm came from aggressive, confrontive, charismatic leaders and the best outcomes from leaders high in caring and meaning attribution with moderate emotional stimulation and executive function. A leader who meets a challenge with force is the profile associated with casualties. The exam remembers.
Where this lives in the course
Domain 5, Counseling Skills & Interventions: the lesson "Group stages: Tuckman, Corey and Yalom". Read it, take its quiz, and add the key terms to your flashcard queue.
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